Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Well, crap.

Well we tried to take our Aussie friends to the Ranger's game tonight, but this is the only view we got. It rained and rained and rained. We were out there long enough to all partake of the yummy $1 hot dog night and to get soaked. Finally, they postponed the game. We'll try again. It was so disappointing...


We took Connor tonight - before we found out that the metroplex is on the brink of a shut down due to the stinkin' flu. Now we're not so sure we should have him out and about...looks like we might just become shut-ins again. *sigh*

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

When will I learn?

When will I learn to keep my mouth shut? (That was a rhetorical question...I have no intentions of actually keeping my mouth shut.)

Yesterday, I casually mentioned to Great-Grandma (Daddy's grandma), on the phone, that Connor was finally sleeping through the night. She cautioned me to not be bragging yet, but I went on to explain that he'd slept for 5 nights in his bed and for long 5-7 hour stretches. After all that sleep I finally felt like myself and mentioned that I could totally get used to that life again. She again told me not to brag because he might not keep doing it. Um, yeah, so last night he decided to be up all night again. Oh, and so did his sister! It was an all-night party at our house.

Darn my mouth! Now that I admit that I shouldn't have said all that, can he please sleep through the night again? Does it cancel out the superstition? :)

Monday, April 27, 2009

Grilling



Daddy teaching Connor the finer points of grilling. (Not really...he's just carting him around so I can clean inside.)

Megan and Mommy date


Megan and I needed some alone time together. Daddy-o and Connor stayed home while we went summer clothes shopping. Whoo hoo!

I allowed myself to get a little "reflective" with this shopping trip. About a year ago my dad gave me U.S. savings bonds that my grandparents and great-grandparents purchased for me when I was born and on my first birthday. They matured at 30 years...yep, that came and went. I cashed a set in last year, but I held onto another set. I took the last set in this week, and designated the cash to a shopping trip and fun time with Megan. It really made me think about my grandparents, how much I miss them, and how much I wish they could be part of my kids' lives. Perhaps my grandparents had other ideas for that money, but I'd like to think that if they were around today they'd be proud that I spent the money in a way that made me happy. Watching Megan walk through the store, searching for the "perfect outfit" (her words), and getting to try on clothes in the dressing room (a huge hit), brought me so much joy. We now have 2 outfits and snazzy flip-flops from Gymboree; a favorite yellow dress; a "flag" (red, white, and blue) and flower dress from OshKosh; new panties; and today we're going to get the (hideous) purple shoes and a swimsuit - if it'll ever stop storming like the world is going to end. We have some money left over to donate to Connor's wardrobe, if he ever needs it.

Showerin' with the Hamars

I crack myself up sometimes. Scary. And yes, I've been slackin' on the bloggin' but we've barely been home this weekend. Thanks to the nasty thunderstorms and PBS, I got photos uploaded and ready to blog.









Saturday we went to Kati and Ryan's couples wedding shower. As the matron-of-honor, cousin, and surrogate sister, I was proud to be the hostess of the shower. Folks, that's some pressure! I seriously stressed about it because I really wanted it to be nice for her, but I'm not so good at "events". My friend Caity graciously came with me to help, and I couldn't have done it without her. The theme of the shower was "stock-up the Hamars" and wow, people got my drift. They got some wonderful things to help them get started, including my favorite Aunt Kari wedding gift...a stocked-up junk drawer! Connor got to meet Aunt Kari, Uncle Gary, and cousin Andrew for the first time. I could tell he was impressed! :) Less than 3 weeks til the wedding! Um, I'd better start shopping for my bridesmaid shoes.

Friday, April 24, 2009

Fun day!

We spent the day with our friends Joanna, Ellie, and Carter.

First, the girls played dress-up, big sister, princess pocket thingies, tea party, beach, and various other imaginative things.


Then they wore nightgowns and made "butterflies".


Then the girls had a yummy lunch. For dessert they made Rice Krispie treats (mostly on their own). Those treats were extra sticky!




Joanna and I both needed to go to Costco, so we loaded up the vans and 2 carts. The sample people didn't know what hit them! On the way home we stopped by the bluebonnet patch in their neighborhood.


Thank you for hosting such a wonderful day!

Joanna let me borrow her Maya wrap, and WHOO HOO! I have a happy baby and 2 free hands. I can do this! Gracias, "Ellie's mama".

Date

I have a date with my daughter this weekend. We're going to go summer clothes shopping together. I have decided to give her the money and let her pick out her own clothes (within some reason). She has had a hard time adjusting to the changes around here, and well, what difference does it make what she wears if she likes it and it makes her happy? She's already picked out a few things here and there that we're going back for (actually, that was my stalling tactic to hope she forgot about a few pieces of clothing). However, she spied a pair of (hideous) purple shoes at Target the other day that she will not let me forget about; I get a reminder at least once a day. I plan to have fun and appreciate her personality. I can't wait.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

With any luck...

these pear blossoms...


turned pear buds...

will become pears!

And these blossoms will turn into blueberries!


We're already enjoying strawberries from the garden. We picked and ate 24 yesterday!

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Laundry Soap, revisited - UPDATED

Okay, Laura...here ya go!

I have been asked SO many questions about the homemade laundry detergent, so I figured I'd just list the answers here for your reference or future reference. I can think of at least 30 people who have made it; many of those have influenced others to make it. I give you those numbers not to brag, but to clarify that the answers below are based upon feedback from people as well as my own experience. I conduct interviews when I hear that someone has made it. Be prepared.

Yes, I still LOVE it. I do not plan to ever use any other form of laundry detergent. It is easy to make and my clothes are soft and clean.

I still use the same recipe. I'd be happy to email it to you in a printable format. However, I want to clarify that I double the ingredient amounts of SWS and Borax with the same water content listed in the recipe. I don't know if that makes a difference, but why mess with a good thing (it was an accident the first time).

It is the general consensus that Zote soap is the preferred bar soap. Those who used Ivory or another bar soap are not impressed. I know of at least 3 people who have dumped the entire batch made with Ivory.

I make it in a 10 gallon tub, but I use old detergent bottles to dispense it. I use a full Tide lid, which is about 1/2 a cup, in my front loading machine. Be sure to shake it before each use as it can clump up in the tray.

Not only do I use the soap as detergent, I also use it as a stain remover. I take a small amount, rub it into the stain with the bottom of the cup, and let it sit. How long it sits depends on how long it is between loads at my house (can be days!). I have never had a fabric discolor....even safe on khaki, in my experience. I have personally seen it get out the following stains: newborn yellow poop, mud, spaghetti sauce, grape juice, pureed carrot, enchilada sauce (story to follow), grass, grease, cranberry juice, strawberry, blueberry, chocolate, preschool mystery stains, and other unknown stains. I like to fill up a bucket of water and this soap to soak my kitchen dish rags and dish towels. They get extra bright white. The bucket trick also works on hard stains. My friend had a cream colored shirt with an orangish enchilada sauce stain on the front. She had tried 3 stain removers and had washed it several times. This detergent got it out.

This stuff is cheap, folks. Cheap. It is less than 1 cent per load. Not only does it replace the detergent, but it also replaces the stain remover. Further, I have noticed (through experimenting) that the clothes are brighter and whiter if I don't use Oxyclean in each load. Which is weird, but it is true (anyone else have experience?). I have not had to use bleach in my laundry loads since making this detergent. And my whites are bright white. So, I save money by not having to buy detergent, stain remover, Oxyclean, and bleach. I figure the savings is over $500 a year (just a guess as I am not a mathematician)....not counting the clothes that are saved from ruin because the stains are gone.

It is safe for people with allergies. My niece and nephew have severe eczema, and they are able to wear clothes washed in the detergent. I did a little googling on the subject, and it is actually recommended for people with skin conditions. Interesting.

The detergent, if made according to the recipe, does not have a clean scent. Personally, I like the unscented laundry. As an experiment, I added baby powder essential oil to one batch for Connor's clothes, and it smells wonderful. I will tell you though, it takes quite a bit of oil per Tide bottle, not big tub, to make a significant scent. It's worth it though. Mmmmm....I can smell it right now. I haven't ventured off into other oils, but I plan to at some point.

What am I missing? Feel free to comment or email your experiences. And ask away...I'll try to answer.

**Forgot some things...add the powdered ingredients to the water (not vice versa) or the powders will clump up like rocks. It is safe to use fabric softener with the detergent. I got my essential oils from a friend, but they can be found at health food stores, Central Market, Whole Foods, etc. Don't be surprised if you have to go more than one place to get the ingredients. I found the Zote at Big Lots (have heard Fiesta, Super 1 Foods, and Publix have it); I found the Borax at Walmart or Target; the Super Washing Soda seems to be the pain - I finally found it at a little grocery store here in town, but HEB/Central Market has it as well. And on a rather low note, Jeremy just referred to me at the "Detergent Diva". Signing off...

It's a family effort

Megan can't even get him to wake up.

2 month check-up

Yesterday, we went to Dr. H for Connor's 2 month check-up. We spent about 5 minutes talking about Connor and about 30 minutes discussing Megan. Hmmm...that might not make sense to you, but spend 5 minutes in my house and you'd see why. Best if I don't get started....

Connor's stats: Weight 13 lbs 11 oz (95th percentile); Head 15 in (25th percentile); Length 23 inches (75th percentile).

He's holding his head up well, opening his hands to grab at things (he loves my shirts), following objects, smiling, giggling, eating well (duh), and everything else he is supposed to be doing. He got 2 shots and one oral vaccine. His poor little thighs are still sore.

So, I went in there with the "my children hate me" mentality, but ended up with egg on my face. Guess whose parents suck? Through discussion, we came to the conclusion that due to lack of sleep and newborn craziness, we had relaxed discipline with Megan. Also, the nurse gave us a "sleep sheet" with 10 sleep instructions for newborns. Yeah, we weren't doing any of the things on the list - no wonder Connor wasn't sleeping at night.

Between Megan's discipline and Connor's sleep, you can just call this house the "Crackdown, Smackdown" house. Stickin' to the rules, baby. Mama needs some peace and some sleep. After just one day, things are already much better around here. Whew. Because I was looking for a single, one-way ticket to Australia.

Monday, April 20, 2009

I make fat babies

My two chunky monkeys at the same age...





And then just this one for kicks. Check out that hair! :)

Just like that.

Babies amaze me. Connor has been sleeping his life away since birth, but it appears as though he has finally figured out how to stay awake. Previously he'd sleep at least 2 good 3-4 hour stretches during the day. For the past 2 days, I've seen improvement on the whole night/day schedule switch (after the 2 a.m. to 8 a.m. all night party the other night). Last night he slept pretty darn well....neither one of us had to stay up all night with him. Today, it's after 4 p.m. and he has only slept maybe 2 hours collectively the entire day. It's really good except for Megan and I don't really know what to do with him the whole time he's awake and wants to be held. Yet another adjustment around here.

Saturday, April 18, 2009

Talk, talk, talk...


Good thing we have unlimited long distance to anyone, anywhere. Megan enjoys talking on the phone to well, anyone. She talked Grandma and Grandpa's ears off the other night while they were driving over for a visit. She kept asking, "How time till you get here?"

It's Baseball time in Texas

I like the NFL, really like college basketball, but I LOVE me some major league baseball. The Rangers might be disappointing sometimes, like in the 12-3 loss to the Royals, but there's nothing like watching a live game at a ballpark. Oh yeah...we went to our first game of the season last night for Daddy's birthday. We sat in Papa's excellent seats right behind home plate. Megan was Papa's date; I was Daddy's date; Gran was Connor's date (at home). Megan got to see her favorite player, Jarrod Saltalamacchia, ate cotton candy, and sang, "Take Me Out to the Ballgame." Towards the end of the game we spotted Kati and Ryan behind home plate! They came and sat with us for a while. It was a very fun night.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Connor photo shoot

Today Connor was the subject of "camera practice". I staged a few little areas with natural light and got busy posing the little fella. Here's a short narrative.


He was a little sad at first.


Then he calmed down and watched the workers across the street.


Then he told me what a great job I was doing.


Then he screamed so hard that the only thing I could get a decent shot of was his feet.


Then he REALLY calmed down...almost fell asleep.


Then he was slightly irritated again.


And then he laid on his belly and chewed his arm.

Enough was enough.

A "Little" crisis - averted

Pun intended. "Little", Megan's sidekick, has been missing since Tuesday. I figured it was no problem because I had extras around the house. Nope. They've all been exhausted in one way or another. Okay, so no big deal because I could go get another one at Target. Nope. They've gone and changed the style and fabric of the little dolls. Shoot. Megan caught on right away, and while she agreed to "accept" the new Little, she was very concerned about the lost Little. "Mom, I'm worried that the lost Little is sad and lonely somewhere." Broke my heart. I watched Megan conditionally accept the new little, while pining for the old one, and I realized that I'm not ready for Little to disappear from the scene. How sad is that? She's a part of the scenery of our family. I got on the phone asking out-of-town family to check the Targets around - just in a case a stray Little managed to hang on or get hidden on a shelf. But crisis diverted: we found Little at school this morning! Whew. Thanks to Granna for mailing us the original Little for use if, heaven forbid, there is another Little crisis.

On a side note, I read this article this morning. I'll admit my addiction, and make an effort to spend less time on the computer, but I will not stop blogging.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

I just love this girl...



Even with all of the adjustments around here, Megan has really been a trooper. I don't remember being "displaced" as an only child a few decades ago, but I cannot imagine the feeling of confusion after being the center of attention one minute and then having to step aside while the parents focus so much attention on the newborn. Megan has handled it very well, all things considered. I'm proud of her. Just as I think she's probably shopping for a new mom, she surprises me. This morning as we got out of the van to go to school she turned to me and said, "I think you are the best ever!" I sure hope she doesn't learn to compare any time soon! :)

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Family dinner




We spent the evening with Grandpa's (my dad's) side of the family. Susan (dad's cousin) graciously invited us to her family Easter dinner. We got to play catch-up over a delicious dinner on a very pleasant evening. She even had an egg hunt for the little kids. I can't believe we all live this close and rarely see each other. But it's nights like tonight that make it all worth it when we do get together.

Easter Morning

We had a very lazy Easter morning. Megan walked straight past the basket loot into our room and watched a few cartoons while we tried to wake up. Then she remembered that the EB was scheduled to visit. She found all the eggs and dug into her basket. It wasn't long before she was hamming it up in front of the big camera, wanting a picture with Connor (pardon my foot).

And he smiles...


I finally caught a smile. Thanks, Grandma!

Anniversary Day


Yesterday, Papa and Gran celebrated their 40th anniversary. 40 years...

Instead of doing something extravagant, guess what they wanted to do for their day? They wanted to spend the day with their kids and grandkids. Done. After the egg hunt in their neighborhood we all descended upon their house for the entire day. It was a beautiful day so the kids played and played outside. They were by far the dirtiest kids I've seen in a long time. Dirty=fun, right? While they think they're pretty lucky to have the grandkids, oh and us too, we're the lucky ones. Thank you for being such a great example to your kids and to your grandkids.

Interview

I've been trying to get this on video for a while...her ambitions to marry Jarrod Saltalamacchia. Just today she decided to add one more player to the mix.


Saturday, April 11, 2009

Bitten by the bug...

So, I decided that I was going to start looking for a digital SLR camera. BUT, I wanted to test drive one first to find out if I even had the ability to take a decent picture with an SLR camera or if indeed I was the problem with any camera. Papa was so very kind to let me hijack his camera all day today to test drive it. And oh, I have been bitten by the bug. It was SO fun to play around with the settings, lighting, and lenses. A big thank you to my family of models today...they let me snap away all day as they played. Some of them only got a little irritated.







I am in no way, shape, or form saying I'm even good at this stuff, but I had fun! I'm no Ashley, or Marla, or Alyssa, but I want to get better for myself (don't worry, I'm not even considering taking this professional). So, what does a girl do? A girl spends all day analyzing, processing, negotiating, number crunching, searching for untapped funds, and stops on the way home at Wolf Camera. I'm the proud owner of a Nikon D60, and I only feel slightly guilty. Now for the real fun to begin...I'm going to try to LEARN how to take better photos. Get gussied up...I need some models - Megan is done with me already.